Tips to Make Valentine’s Day a Gift to All
A small gift, a hug or a quiet, intimate dinner are simple ways that we express our appreciation for the people that fill out hearts with joy. Not surprisingly, something this important absolutely deserves its own holiday – Valentine’s Day.
For families with members who are living with autism, this holiday can prove to be extremely challenging and overwhelming. Adults and children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) thrive on understanding the world around them through routine and consistency. A day devoted to large displays of physical, outward affection can be very jarring.
Devereux [1], one of the nation’s oldest and largest nonprofit behavioral healthcare providers, believes that every family should be able to appreciate these small, special moments that lead to enriched livelihoods.
Here’s quick and easy list to make this holiday a gift for all families.
1.) Crafting Together – Celebrate the holiday by doing Valentine’s Day-themed crafts as a family. Clay handprint hearts are personalized, unique and will last for years to come.
Related: DIY Valentine Craft: Heart Magnets [2]
2.) Family Meals – Simple and easy-to-make recipes are another way to get each member of the family to actively participate. As you cook, have fun! Explain the meaning of Valentine’s Day is and why each family member is special and unique.
Related: Cooking with Kids: Chocolate-Fondue [3]
3.) “Me Time” is OK – As a caregiver, you are constantly thinking about others. This Valentine’s Day it is okay to indulge in “me” time. Call on a close trusted family member or friend to watch your children for the evening. Enjoy a night on the town! You deserve it.
Related: Dated Night Ideas for Exhausted Parents [4]
4.) Share Responsibilities – If your spouse is typically the primary caregiver for your family member, offer to take over for the day. Let your spouse spend some time alone to relax, refresh and recharge.
Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day!